If I had my child to raise all over again, I’d build self-esteem first, and the house later. I’d finger-paint more, and point the finger less. I would do less correcting and more connecting. I’d take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes. I’d take more hikes and fly more kites. I’d stop playing serious, and seriously play. I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars. I’d do more hugging and less tugging. – Diane Loomans
Developing a Strong Parent-Child Relationship
A mother hears her newborn baby cry, and responds immediately. She knows his cries, and knows this cry means he’s hungry. She changes his wet diaper and settles in to nurse him.
A father hears his four-year-old daughter crying in another room and finds her snuggling a stuffed animal her mother had given her. Mom is away on a business trip. Dad scoops his daughter up in his arms and strokes her head, while patiently listening to her concerns. He validates each of her feelings with words like “Oh I know, honey, I miss mommy too”, and “Mommy is so special, isn’t she?”