Power struggles. We’ve all been there – the dreaded no. Toddlers are famous for it. Preschoolers like to try out the “I Hate You!” Middle Schoolers might threaten to run away, or tell you that Suzie’s mom is way better than you are. And teenagers will just walk out the door. But how do we avoid a power struggle?
They all do it.
Kids at every age will continuously question your authority and test their independence.
It is absolutely normal and something that we want our kids to be doing. It is how they grow and develop in to an adult.
But as the child tries to pull away and the parents try to maintain control, the process can be anything but smooth. The screaming, fighting and tantrums that may follow can be exhausting and hurtful for all parties involved.