It’s the first week of a new year – 2017. This is the time when we often find ourselves making goals or resolutions….we look for ways to make this year even better than the last. So how about improving your parenting style?
Your parenting style affects your relationship with your child.
To make good goals or resolutions in your parenting, you first have to know how you have parented in the past. What did you do well? What do you need to do better? And how can you get from where you are at to where you want to be, as a parent?
The best thing a person can do to be a better parent is to focus on personal development.
Lisa Firestone, Ph.D, explains in Psychology Today, “So much of the information out there about how to be a better parent focuses on techniques for modifying your child’s behavior. But it is missing the mark. Research has shown that the one thing a person can do to be a better parent is to focus on developing him or herself. This is where a person has to start in order to be a nurturing, attuned mother or father. When it comes to parenting, there are many reasons for us to look inward and understand ourselves as people if our goal is to become a better parent.”