We don’t know how it happens.
But somehow, our bouncy little boys or sweet little princesses grow up.
And grow away.
How do we go from being their whole wide world one minute, to barely being allowed in to it the next?
It’s a hard pill to swallow. But it is normal and natural; in fact, we want our kids to move away from us and create lives of their own. It is what they are supposed to do. (If you are still their whole wide world at age 17, then Houston, we have a problem…)
Still, we need to stay involved in their lives, not only for supervision and guidance, but also because we love our children, and want a (gulp!) adult relationship with them in a year or two.
So how do we step back in to their worlds, after being gone for so long?